I’m tired. Every day, I wake up and reluctantly open a browser to check out the latest local and national news. There are some days I forgo the update just because I don’t have the emotional capacity at that moment to handle the barrage of “news” that’s coming at me.
John Krasinski had something when he started his “Some Good News” updates early on in the pandemic. People needed to see that there were still good things happening in the world. People needed to see updates that involved more than just the grave things that were impacting us. Not because those grave things weren’t important but because when all you do is focus on the negative, challenges, and struggles, it’s hard to get your head above water long enough to take a deep breath.
I’m not a sociologist (and I didn’t stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night), so I can’t tell you the start and progression that has led to this moment in the history of our country. All I know is that I continue to wonder when and how we became a country who has stopped critically thinking, stopped embracing differing opinions and instead started to silence anything with which we disagree.
Our country was founded on freedom. Sure, we have had a deeply troubled history with exactly what that means. Today is the first day of Black History Month, a helpful focus for those who deny that we have a race problem in our country. Despite our sordid history and constant missteps, the founding principles of this nation revolve around the ability to express ourselves and our opinions without fear of tyrannic despots silencing us for those opinions.
Instead though, the masses have become the tyrannic despots. The culture, not a leader or government official, has decided what’s acceptable and what isn’t, and when opposition comes against the acceptable, we immediately move to canceling it out, silencing it, even going so far as to attempt to wipe it out completely.
Have we really come to the point where we have forgotten how to critically think? Have we become so insecure in our opinions and ideas that the moment someone voices a contrary opinion or idea, we feel the need to not just dismiss it, but annihilate it?
We have lost the art of critical thinking. We have failed to calmly engage ideas and principles that are contrary to our own, Instead seeing them as a threat and using all powers possible to remove them from the list of possibilities. We would much rather be inflamed and instigate the masses than actually take a step back and ask ourselves, “Is there anything valid to what’s being said?”
As a Christian, I believe that God calls me to something higher. I believe that the journey that I am on calls me to a process of betterment by which I will be transformed and changed a little bit more every day. I am far from perfect, but through the power of God and the Holy Spirit, I am being changed.
Trust me, it’s not been a pretty process. Talk to anyone who’s been a fly on the wall and seen some of the train wrecks that I’ve caused or been involved with over the years. I’m not running for public office, which is a good thing since I’m not quite sure what kinds of dirt would be flying around if I were. But the key word is “process.” It’s not an event or a step, it’s a process, and the thing about a process is that it takes time, it just doesn’t happen overnight.
I’m tired, but my capacity to change is limited to myself and the small circle of people who surround me in my everyday life. But change also is a process, often painful and rarely quick. It sometimes involves backwards steps, steps that feel counterintuitive to the progress you thought you were to be making.
A few years back, after I had started being more intentional about my yearly plan for reading books, I decided that I would try to incorporate books into my yearly reading plan with which I would most likely disagree. I realized that when we surround ourselves and ingest only the things with which we agree, we make ourselves insular and create an echo chamber of voices that tell us what we want to hear rather than what we need to hear.
That’s what we are surrounded by every day. Our news feed, our social media, most things that we are viewing are designed to give us more of what we want, eliminating anything that would convey a different view. So, we need to disrupt the algorithm, throw it off and start thinking for ourselves.
Be a skeptic, if you must. Question authority, even if you agree with it. Start asking more questions and making less statements. Read things with which you’ll disagree. When you come up against something with which you disagree, don’t jump to cancel it, explore it, do your best to understand it, find someone who embraces it and build a relationship with them, not to convince them of your own viewpoint but to possibly find out where your viewpoint is lacking and what you might gain from theirs.
Stop and think. We’re better than what we’ve become, but we don’t have to stay where we are.